Why do we need a team?

I really want to write down about my feeling.  It’s annoying . Put me in a confusing-situation , Make me sad yet irritated about the problem,  with my team.

At that time, some questions come up to my mind. Why do I need a team?

The purpose for creating teams is to participate in planning, problem solving, decision making, support each other and to be able to reach our goals. French language has an excellent word to describe it “spirit de corps” this means a sense of unity, of enthusiasm for common interest and responsibilities.

So the ordinary thing in this world is sharing about the problem to my team because I already have it. I told my team about the problems and talking about the solution.

But  what happened?

I guess you know what has happened  if I told you this….

“Why do I need a team ? why?”

There’s no solution no clear point . And I tried to ask again with highest hope that person will give me a little way to solve it, but that person’s answer  is such no help and make the problem more complicated. Is this called teamwork?  

I am getting mad, but once again I told myself to keep calm and be patient. I told myself maybe they’re confused too so they didn’t know how to answer my question. When I’m mad anything I said possibly hurt the other’s  feel  so,  I managed to keep it inside because I don’t want to hurt them.  As you know, it’s painful. The only thing that usually called “painkiller” is to shout it out. Tell our friends about our feeling is better than keep it alone right?.  Of course to the right person and in a right situation . Why? Sometimes if you do it in the wrong situation or in a wrong person I’m sure that it’ll end with new problem.  But whenever I wanna do it, I mean tell my friend about my feeling, I think it in several time “is it right?”/ “is it okay to tell her/him now?” / “are they busy or not?”  that kind of question was always haunt me.   

Sometimes, the only thing that I wanna do is share it to my mom, or dad . That yes ­­-no answer always rotated in my mind then I refuse to do it. a simple reason, I just don’t want to bothering  them with my own problem because I know their problem’s heavier than mine and they’re not discussing it with me. 

You ever feel the same, don’t you?

Don’t worry, you’re just sane as I am. 

a bit advice from me . First, take a deep breath, tell yourself that everything will be okay

do not confused, life isn't that complicated which one is more urgent, solve it first as simple as that.

The important things is don’t  blame yourself, do not let yourself think it on your own. You need someone to talk with. (I’m sure you have one, who always there no matter what)  just tell that person that you’re not fine and ask that person to help you.

God’s always listening and understanding, friends.

and once more, it's okay to tell your friend if you are not okay. 

 PS: it's for me too, little bit hard, trying with a slow progress is better than do nothing 

with bee, 

see you